Author Urban Paranormal Romance
Need some free advice? Visit S.J. Cairns’ ‘Slice of Advice’ and ask me anything, literally anything (relationships – romantic or other, everyday problems, life steps, self-care, career, next favourite show, even your new puppy’s name, ANYTHING!)
All opinions/responses can and will remain anonymous (names and specific details altered) and will be responded to privately before posting on my blog.
Disclaimer: All responses are my opinion and based on my 34 years of life, 10 years in social services, and any research involved depending on the question. Any research avenues will be shared.
Original Question: I recently began a full-time job for the first time in a couple of years and almost immediately suffered from panic attacks, increased stress, and worsened depression. Before this full-time position, I worked
Original Question: Sami-Jo, I have a friend I dated several months ago who I know didn’t experience a “lightning bolt” of attraction when we went out. But, I also know that I check just about
Original Question: I have chronic insomnia. Over the past eight years, I have tried every possible remedy, home-cooked or prescribed. After a visit to my doctor this week to follow up on my progress, or
Original Question: While I have to sort of laugh at myself for starting the advice question with “I have a friend” but: I have a friend who is a fellow author. She asked me to
Original Question: I’ve been going back and forth about what to do with a book on suicide I’ve drafted over the past few months. It currently sits around 200 pages and includes everything from sex,
Original Question: Hey Sami-Jo, here’s a question for your advice column. How do you help a family member who is becoming increasingly paranoid and anxious and clearly needs help, but refuses to believe they have